It can be a challenge at times to just live life, and being a human pup, it can get confusing. Sirius Pup has a simple guideline of what makes a healthy lifestyle, so you can check yourself any time as to whether your kink is causing you trouble. It is not meant to be canonical - we aren't your fucking priest. It's just a simple guide that can help put things in perspective.
http://www.siriuspup.net/the-healthy-pup-life/